
Thanksgiving Tonglen
Tonglen is a Buddhist practice of transforming suffering. I like to think of it as a prayer that’s synchronized with breath. For example, on the in breath, I call into my heart someone else’s suffering, and allow my own light to transform it. On the out breath, I breathe out a blessing for that person. I stay with my breath in this way, blessing one situation over and over, or moving through a litany of circumstances.
Thanksgiving Tonglen
I breathe in, I breathe out.
For this I am grateful.
I breathe in the uncertainty and anguish
of those who are entwined with illness.
I breathe out comfort and healing.
I breathe in the agony
of those who have lost loved ones to violence.
I breathe out love.
I breathe in the aftermath of natural disaster,
the unclean water, the lack I am entirely unaware of.
I breathe out strength and restoration.
I breathe in the violation of sacred gathering,
the reverberating loss of trust.
I breathe out courage.
I breathe in the echoes of silenced humiliation.
I breathe out compassion and forgiveness.
I breathe in the alienation and intolerance
of those misled into acts of violence.
I breathe out healing and connection.
I breathe in the hopelessness
created by messages from ignorant leaders.
I breathe out hope for change.
I breathe in misunderstanding,
between friends, between strangers, between countries.
I breathe out harmony.
For every suffering I am unaware of,
for every person in need of prayer,
I breathe in, I breathe out.
And when my heart can process no more,
I call on the ever-present angels
to absorb what I witness,
to transform every shade of pain,
and to send through me a blessing outward
into the world.
I breathe in, I breathe out.
For this I am grateful.
